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Dear Family and Friends,
In the fall of 2017, I met a women who I fell deeply in love with. We had 2 incredible boys together, and then last year, the traumas and ghosts of our past became too much. She thought divorce was the best answer and left me in April of 2022, fleeing with the boys. Unfortunately, my 2 innocent boys have lost the most, as they join the most disadvantaged demographic in society. “According to the Center for Disease Control, children from fatherless homes account for 90 percent of all homeless and runaway kids, 71 percent of high school dropouts, and 63 percent of youth suicides” explained Marilyn York in a TEDx Talk about divorce.
It has been about 10 years since coordinated surveillance and gaslighting against me and the human rights I our institutions are subject to. It began in my 20s when I became a data scientist working at iQor after graduating from Columbia University with a Masters in Operations Research. I was thrilled to help call centers from the US to the Philippines and South America improve the performance of every rep by building predictive models, implementing them operationally, and reporting our progress directly to the executive team. I found it strange to be one of the only US citizens on the analytics team there, but years later when I ultimately realized we were building racist algorithms and laundering personal data from the credit reporting agencies, it made more sense. Of course, I was pressured to leave when I started asking too many questions and sharing my opinion. When I found them will to It was better for them to use people from another country held hostage by job visas for those kind of projects. (alt? It is smarter to get foreigners to work on domestic privacy[abusing] systems because getting fired, humiliated, and visa pulled are pretty powerful incentives to not think about the of the people we are impacting by our work. ) I wish this was not the last sketchy data science project I worked on, but it sent me down the road of perverse corporate incentives the casualties of surveillance capitalism. (atl? And now it has cost me nearly everything I worked so hard to keep. ) These troubles coupled with martial conflict, financial distress, an attachment to integrity, and became a hellish life that my coparent deemed unfit for my boys.
I am proud to say I kept most of this trauma from my boys. I understand how impressionable children are at a young age, and I worked hard to protect and support them. However, the pressure to make money as an entrepreneur with a young family, emotionally abusive in-laws who moved into our basement without paying rent, plus family debt; pushed me to burnout so in April 6 of 2022, my wife ran away with my boys leaving a “Staycation” sign posted to my friends short-stay townhouse we were staying in. After less than 2 hours of time out of the house (remember the CoVid aftermath?) she stripped the place we were living bear of all but my friends stuff and some of my personal and work stuff. I was in shock, but need to make sure my boys were ok. [Private but Relevant Note: My wife has been significantly significantly suicidal in the last year, which is a level of mental trauma I still don’t understand, but wished I could at points to console my troubled wife in her disppare and need.]
It has taken me 2-10+ years to publish this cry for help, because the thought of this inter-generational corruption hurting my own children now and countless innocent victims for years breaks my heart and brings me to weep for the intergenerational ignorance, greed, and selfishness fueling it all and that it is taboo to talk about finance, religion, identity, divorce, and custody battles; and unpleasant to talk about too much).
With this context and prelude, I make this heart broken petition: Please, don’t push my boys into another the high-risk stats for a lifetime of suffering, respect fatherhood and motherhood equally, Both-Parents-Matter now and always.
Dear Hanah,
You are still in my family and/or friend, at least until the end of April 2024, after which I will be issuing you a certificate of divorce and taking the following actions:
- filing preemptive declaration of divorce and spousal abandonment
- issuing you and the church a certificate of divorce so we can separate our religious records properly and request sealing cancelation
- telling your story to our family and friends under MNDA so I can negotiate family trust matters related to raising our boys and get training on how to spot and defend against emotional abuse, and
- petition for the courts to temporarily assign me full legal custody and 50% or more physical custody with parent-time scheduled at my full discretion until you and your family can get therapy, heal, and stop this pathological inter-generational pattern in your family of divorce abuse and gaslighting untreated-bpd-creates-emotional-abuse
Let’s make April is Divorce Holiday to celebrate and lament Parent-Child Right and invite our family, friends, church, school, legal, and civic leaders to join us.
After telling my First Divorce Attorney about my predicament because of the federal ties the state has with my failed whistleblower situation with a secret intel organization US-ally, the attorney told me “I feel like you are putting a gun to my head”. This accelerated my need to get a secure data room in place, which my First Divorce Attorney ultimately could not figure out (and she had my parent plan and dispute resolution written by a disbarred judge heroine addict who gaslighted and false accused his own family to save his reputation.)
Hanah told me about a dream she had, where I went to a conference to accept an award or something, but then half of our friends started killing everyone at the conference and chased and killed us also. He forbid me from spending more than 4 day away from home for work or conferences, but she still wanted me to get a job like I had during the glory days of Survillance Capitalism.